In an emergency, always dial 999 - if you are unable to speak always press '55' when prompted to confirm an emergency.
No-one should live in fear of abuse or violence from a spouse, partner or someone they are personally connected to (member of their household – they don’t need to be in the same household).
The definition of domestic abuse is any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This includes, but is not limited to the following types of abuse:
No matter your gender, sexuality, age or situation, there is support available for everyone.
National and specialist domestic abuse support
Domestic abuse: How to get help easy read guidance (pdf)
If you are not in the areas below, you can find out more about local support from your local council, find your local council here www.gov.uk/find-local-council
Harmful Practices occur across all sexes, sexual identities and genders and are not unique to a particular culture or religion. These are forms of domestic abuse, but unlike ‘typical’ domestic abuse, family members and the extended family are often involved. Harmful traditional practices include:
Domestic violence and abuse can be actual or threatened and can happen once every so often or on a regular basis.
It can happen to anyone, in all kinds of relationships.
People suffer domestic abuse regardless of their social group, gender, class, age, race, disability, sexuality or lifestyle.
The abuse can begin at any time – in new relationships or after many years together.
Children are affected by domestic abuse both in the short and long term.
In an emergency, always dial 999 - if you are unable to speak always press '55' when prompted to confirm an emergency.
If you are worried that you, or someone you know, is in an abuse relationship, you must report it.
Abuse is a learned behaviour, which means it can be unlearned.
If you have recognised your own abusive behaviour and want to change, free, confidential and non-judgemental support is available.
There are different kinds of abuse, but it's always about someone having power and control over you. If you answer yes to any of the following questions, you might be in an abusive relationship.
Does your partner ever:
Does your partner ever:
The person abusing you may hurt you in a number of ways. Does your partner ever:
Sexual abuse can happen to anyone. Does your partner ever:
Have you ever felt afraid of your partner?
Have you ever changed your behaviour because you're afraid of what your partner might do?
If you think you may be in an abusive relationship, there are lots of people who can help you.
Sanctuary schemes support victims of domestic abuse to feel safe in their own homes with the installation of additional security equipment to the property.
It may also include a Sanctuary Safe Room, which is defined as ‘replacing a door to a main room, often the bedroom, with a solid core door. The Sanctuary Safe Room door is reversed to open outwards; the frame is reinforced, additional locks and bolts, substantial hinges and a door viewer are fitted. This provides a safe room where household members can call and wait safely for the police.
From October 2021, claimants living in a social sector property that has been adapted under a sanctuary scheme were excluded from the Bedroom Tax. This applies to both Housing Benefit and Universal Credit, find out more here.
St Helens Council do not currently operate a Sanctuary Scheme but target hardening funding can be applied for, contact Safe2Speak for more information on 01744 743200.
If you are a Liverpool resident and require target hardening, please contact Liverpool City Council Housing Options on 0151 233 3061 or email housingoptionsservice@liverpool.gov.uk.
If you are a Torus tenant and feel you would benefit from some security measures to feel safe at home due to domestic abuse, please contact us on 0800 678 1894 or email info@torus.co.uk.
Torus takes reports of anti-social behaviour (ASB) and noise nuisance seriously. However on some occasions, what may seem like a noise issue could be domestic abuse. Domestic abuse should not be confused with ASB it is a form of abuse which can result in serious harm, injury or even death. It affects adults as well as children.
If you believe you witness or hear what you believe is domestic abuse, we ask you to be a good neighbour and help to keep others safe by reporting it straight away to the Police, DO NOT wait to report it to Torus as noise nuisance. This could lead to delays in victims receiving the right support quickly.
Remember, be a good neighbour, report the crime and you may prevent someone being seriously harmed or worse.